You Can Help Domestic Violence Shelters Make Life-Saving Differences

Editor’s note: Jennifer Cook reminds
us in today’s post how domestic violence shelters meet urgent and long-term
needs of domestic abuse victims — and how we can all help.
The Mary Kay Foundation℠ recently completed its 2017 domestic
violence shelter grant selection process, reviewing more than 720
applications. Yes, we read every
application!
The Foundation will announce grant recipients in late September, in honor of National Domestic Violence
Awareness Month in October.
In 2000, when The Foundation expanded its mission to include
eliminating domestic violence against women, members of the Board of Directors
visited the National Domestic Violence
Hotline in Austin, Texas. Board
members asked those manning the phone lines what was the most urgent need.
Their reply: “Keeping the shelters open.”
They also expressed frustration at talking with a woman on the phone
who urgently needed a safe place to go and being unable to find a shelter to
help her. So keeping the shelters open
has become the major focus of The Foundation’s domestic violence prevention
funding.
When I read the grant applications each year, I am always impressed by
how much is accomplished — with small
staffs and small budgets — by
domestic violence shelters around the United States.
I was reminded of this recently when I spoke at the 16th Annual Tribute To Women to support the YWCA’s
shelter in Pueblo, Colo., a 2014 Foundation shelter grant recipient.
First on my agenda was to visit the shelter and meet the staff and
board. What a dedicated team! Each staff member I spoke with is passionate
about helping women.
With a budget of less
than $807,000, they accomplish so much.
During 2016, the YWCA of Pueblo helped thousands of people through these
important programs:
- Co-location Program – A case manager housed at the local Department of Social Services family service center screens incoming clients for a history of domestic violence and trains fellow social workers: served 53 adults and 116 children.
- Community Presentations –Various community presentations reached 581 adults.
- Counseling – Adult and child individual and group counseling programs served 99 adults and 48 children.
- Walk-in Clients – Programs or referrals to appropriate community resources aided 185 adults and 124 walk-in clients.
- Residents – Provided safe, secure housing to 70 adult women and 67 children.
- Safe Dates© – Presented curriculum that helps teens recognize differences between a healthy relationship and an abusive relationship, and teaches them skills to use if they are in an abusive relationship and how to access community resources: 11 adults and 364 middle and high school students served.
- Supervised visitation and safe exchange center – Provided services to 71 parent victims, totaling 463 safe exchanges and 637 supervised visits.
One of my favorite programs they offer is play therapy. Play Therapy
Counselor Kate Booth is well-known in Pueblo for the court-ordered classes she
teaches for domestic violence offenders, “Effects of Domestic Violence on
Children.” Monthly classes are also open to the public.
Domestic Violence Services Director Patty Kester, a 10-year staff
member, exudes calmness and caring —
invaluable characteristics for someone in her role. Pattys says, “Program
participants who succeed do so because they are committed to improving their
lives. The domestic violence services staff is there to give encouragement,
guidance and community resources, and provide a rent-free safe place while
residents heal and learn to thrive. We provide the stepping stones; each victim
walks her own journey to a safer more fulfilling life.”
From the more than 720 grant applications The Mary Kay Foundation℠
received this year, we will award 150 grants of $20,000 each, totaling $3
million, to shelters across the United States.
But our vision is larger! We want to keep more domestic violence
shelters open!
Won’t you join us in this mission by making a donation at www.marykayfoundation.org. I can testify
that each dollar donated to shelters is well spent.
Do you have a story
about supporting a domestic violence shelter? Please tell us in the comments
below!
Jennifer Cook is the Director of The Mary Kay Foundation℠ and is also a Mary Kay Foundation Board Member. Having been a part of the Company since 1971, she worked closely with Mary Kay Ash and saw first-hand Mary Kay’s generous and fervent heart toward raising money for cancer research, her involvement in supporting Dallas’ first domestic violence shelter and her tenderness toward those going through difficult times.